Your Name
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Your Partner's Name
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Wedding Date
Housekeeping
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Would you like me to make an announcement prior to the ceremony about photography during the ceremony? Can they take photos, can they post to social media?
Do you have a wedding hashtag?
Will you have rose petals or any kind of confetti?
When you got together, what were your lives like?
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Where were you living at the time, what jobs were you doing? Were you single and loving it, or desperate and dateless?
How did you first meet?
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Go on - tell me all the juicy details!
What were you first attracted to about each other?
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What are your early memories of each other?
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First impressions?
When did you realise something was going to happen between you?
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What's your favourite thing about each other?
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How would you describe your relationship?
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What sorts of things do you like to do together? Are there certain places: cafe’s, parks, holiday spots, you go to a lot?
Tell me about the proposal (or non-proposal!)
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How did you decide to make it official?
What is it about this person that made them the one for you?
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What do you foresee for your future together?
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What do you promise to do for each other forever?
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What does marriage mean to you?
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Why do you want to get married?
Your Families
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What would you like me to say about your families? Shall I mention your parents? What should I say about them? How long have they been married for, if they are still together? Shall I mention your grandparents? Anyone else whose marriages have been role models for you?
Special Guests
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Is there anyone else coming who you would like me to make special mention of? Any elderly relatives, anyone who is 'like a father' or fairy god father / mother ... ?
Wedding Party
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Do you want me to make mention of who is in your wedding party? If so, tell me a little bit about each person, the more random the better :)
Witnesses
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Who would you like to have as your witnesses? (You’ll need two people over the age of 18). I need their full names. We could also play a game of ‘witness lotto’ during the ceremony where the two winners automatically become your witnesses.
Would you like to write your own vows?
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Would you like to have any readings, or songs?
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The Extra Bits
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Now that you've read the ceremony structure page, tell me what you think!! Did any of the "ceremony-extras" appeal? Do you have any questions about the ceremony structure or anything you'd like me to mention in the pre-ceremony chit chat?
